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Published: June 5th 2025, 6:00:10 am

𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐞 𝐦𝐚𝐬𝐤𝐬 𝐩𝐚𝐢𝐧: 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡 𝐛𝐞𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐫𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬

Our sexuality can be a path to deeper self-understanding and a way to step into our full, authentic and powerful selves. This naturally leads to more meaningful connections and a more fulfilling life.

Yet most men (I speak about men because I mainly work with them as a domme) rarely analyze their needs and desires. And that’s exactly what keeps them stuck in harmful patterns and unfulfilled lives.

Take, for example, the many men who are into Findom/Femdom. Beneath their desires often lies something profound - worshipping the feminine, pleasing a woman, living with purpose, creating meaningful connections and craving true intimacy. But these desires are usually tangled up with unprocessed trauma they haven’t looked at.

Where does that lead? To emasculation, viewing

submission as something humiliating, addictions and being trapped in a cycle of misery. They don’t understand why, because they blindly follow their surface-level urges, which might feel good temporarily, but doesn’t truly fulfill them. Their deeper needs remain unmet. And their real potential stays out of reach.

Choosing a domme who supports healthy masculinity often doesn’t help - because she doesn’t play games. She doesn’t feed their demons. She brings them into the light. And that’s something so many of men are not ready for. As their trauma is fed in misery. Because it feels safe.

Unfortunately, you can stroke your brain out of your head, but you can’t deny the fact that your demons - as well as your cravings for something deeper - live in your body. Circulating in your veins, written in your spirit. And no matter how much you try to distract yourself, they will keep calling. Calling you to rise. To challenge yourself. To step out of the shadows of empty habits into the powerful truth of real submission.

But to do that, you can’t be afraid of your own darkness. There’s a reason why you crave intimacy and yet fear it - why a part of you believes you don’t deserve it. It’s your trauma speaking.

True Goddess worship doesn’t diminish your power. It honours it. But to rise in your sůbmission, you need to learn to see, accept and honour yourself first.