cassandra_sitara

My first attempt at writing on here. I will take any + all f..

Published: April 21st 2025, 3:43:03 pm

My first attempt at writing on here. I will take any + all feedback good & bad.
This is more focused on desiring to be femme over actually doing anything sexy as a first point.

I’ve been asked a few times for Sissy tasks and Sissy tips.

Humiliation sissy tasks is not my thing, there are a lot of truly dominant Mistress’s who love to humiliate sissies.

What I can do is write about a path to build yourself up. Becoming the sissy/femme/femboy/trans girl/etc that you have always dreamed of being.

I know most, if not all Dommes will require subscribing to their pages, especially if you want to learn consistently over time.

Most Mistress and Dommes will show very little interest in a male without a profile photo and no activity/history.

Instead, become the person

- Who has spent time improving who they are.

- Been to places in person, such as a munch.

- Interacted respectfully with others online and read about what other people desire.

That is somebody likely to make friends and be more appealing to others.

It is not meant to be easy for you, it still isn’t easy for me, I’m a really introverted shy person by design.

I went from somebody who had never bought anything and was following people online to,

- Buying my own items and learning every day.

- Now I go out in public dressed femme

-I go to events in full outfits.

-Other munches I’m dressed in a much more non-binary way.

You can do it as well, and you can do a lot more than me.

My first tip more than absolutely anything is DO NOT make finding a Mistress your only goal. Nobody likes the person who spam comments the same thing to every Domme. That is not appealing or interesting and you come off desperate.

If you improve yourself first, you will discover the most amazing and beautiful people of all genders. Perhaps in time you will find a friend that becomes more and that might be your dream scenario but not on day one. Spamming the same message and focusing on one kind of relationship only make you feel sad when it doesn’t work.

I 100% guarantee you walk past people in the street every single day who naturally are better looking than me. My difference is the desire and happiness I feel becoming this person every single day is a lot better for me than the pain I felt being sad and knowing I was living a lie.

Cassandra xx