Published: October 16th 2025, 3:15:13 am
My favorite part? 3:25 - he sweetly asks me to take off my bra and I start to do it, and then I stop.
I ask him to, "Tell me to take it off," and he does, but still too sweetly for my taste...
"Like you mean it," I demand.
I LOVE that moment because the truth is we are our lovers' teachers, guiding them to our desires. So often we want mind readers, a telepathic understanding of our inner world.
However, the thing that actually elicits my ravenous appetite for a playmate or lover?? Communication. And more specifically, an ability to receive my feedback, genuinely, and adapt without ego—in the bedroom and out.
And vice versa—when a person can articulate their wants and desires so that I can better fulfill them, trusting me to receive their honesty...WET.
Gents, I speak from COPIOUS amounts of experience when I say...I fear this might be a place the majority of you could use some work 😉 Consider this my free dating advice. ❤️🔥
xx
CJ