When I learned that my best friend from Boston was going to ..
Published: March 24th 2022, 5:32:01 pm
When I learned that my best friend from Boston was going to be in NYC for business during early March, I thought it might be the perfect occasion to get back to the Big Apple, and, line up a first xxx collaboration. With only four nights there, I had my fingers crossed that Jonah @showoffjonah would be in town because he travels a ton. At first, I contacted him about doing a "sexy photoshoot" with Austin. Very fortunately, I was in luck - he was 1. Going to be home (he lives in Brooklyn) and 2. He was definitely down for the sexy shoot. So when we first started to make plans, collaborating on a xxx video wasn't in the conversation. I was still rolling it around in my head. For me, there was just a definite difference in having a fully-nude OnlyFans versus one with actual sex. The concern I had wasn't about "what others would think" - I've long ago stopped worrying about that - but I did consider if sex in my private life would be compromised because it's now been inserted into "business." The thought that it might bring more money to this platform was on my mind too - but, it was not a primary motivating factor for me. While I have ZERO judgment on anyone's motivation for having an OF page, I come from a place of privilege at my age and after multiple professional careers to make these decisions without a "need" or desperation for money. Personally that gives me comfort in knowing that I'm following my passion and not just chasing dollars. Eventually, I got my head around things and here's what I wrote to Jonah: "Hey handsome! I'm beyond-excited to m33t you and the shoot 🤤🤤 can't wait. That's why I'm writing. What are you wanting to do? I've only had one other shoot with a guy - way hot but just posing - didn't even kiss. On my end I'm willing to explore way more. Still debating a bit about how much. All of my content has always been solo - so this would be new for me. And you'd have to explain how we both promote. 🤣 Anyway, I'm just putting this out there because I think I'd be comfortable w you and I know Austin. I have *zero* expectations so if you just wanted to do a sexy shoot - I'm still so happy." *As you can see, Jonah was all in for everything.* 😈😈
